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Frequently Asked Questions by swingers on this site

Why isn't my ad up yet?

Your ad (profile) is approved before becoming visible to others. Under normal conditions this takes up to a maximum of 10 minutes but is usually less than 5 minutes. We have an administrative team employed to look after the approvals 24x7.

I'm new to swinging, how do I get into the scene?

The best way to get into the scene is to answer an ad or post your own. That's what this site is all about! As this question often comes from single males let me offer some direct advice to that group - try answering ads first in the Couples for males section - always be polite - send full photographs, cock shots may not get you as many responses. If at first you don't succeed - try, try again. If someone says they are going to the Bermuda triangle for an extended holiday take the hint and move on to the next ad.

I'll be in Town on x night. How do I get a really beautiful girl?

I cannot guarantee action to anyone - not even myself! You have four options here -

1. use some foresight and planning and answer some ads a few weeks before your trip to arrange a meeting

2. visit a swing club during your visit

3. put a posting on the forum - you may get lucky

4. call an escort

If anyone has additional ideas/options on this theme let me know.

How does one get started as an escort?

Other than placing the ads I have little contact with escorts. I encourage you to contact them directly. Remember these are professionals whose time and expertise are valuable and treat them accordingly.

How do I start my own adult site?

First, you will need to give up all your other hobbies and interests. Maintaining a site is a lot of work which doesn't leave much time for other things. Remember that if you create a site that people like, they will be very demanding, and keep asking for more content.

If you want to go ahead and build one, there are many excellent tutorials on website building available through any search engine on the web.

I will also build you websites go tohttps://www.ddproductions.co.uk for more details.

I will be in the City on x day. Please send me details of clubs/parties.

All the information I have on house parties and commercial clubs is on the site "Clubs and Parties".  If you have details about clubs or parties in your area please send them to me and I will add them to the site.

Please introduce me to Jane/Sue/Lynn etc.

I do not do personal introductions except between people I know, and who I think may get on well together.

David, I have had no responses to my ad - or no one responds to my emails.

This is a free world, and to be realistic I have no means by which to "make" people respond to ads or to mails sent in response to an ad. People have thousands of reasons why they may not respond.

Men please be aware - couples and ladies who advertise for men get so many responses it is impossible for them to respond to all of them - To try and understand the problem I have been talking to a few of the new advertisers. They have told me that the response rate has been in excess of 500 emails a week. This means that to read the responses alone takes a very long time. If it takes one minute to read each mail, it takes more than eight hours to read 500 mails, and replying to them, even at 30 seconds a mail takes more than four hours. Emails with pictures slow the process down, especially when you send them at high resolution (greater than 96dpi) and/or where the image is very large - greater than a maximum of 600x400 (this is plenty large enough to let people see you - greater resolution and size is only needed when you want to print a picture).

Don't respond to ads where you do not fit the criteria of the advertiser. You are wasting their time, your time, and clogging up the mail system with hundreds of pointless emails.

Please read the etiquette section to be found on the links above.

David, is my email link working?.

Yes. I cannot force people to reply, but your mail has reached them, and if they have tried to respond their mail will be in one of your in boxes inside your profile.  You can check if the recipient has read the mail by checking your sex with strangers  mailbox. Click on mail, then click on sent mails. If the mail you send has the word "new" in red, the person you have sent the mail to has not yet read it. If does not have anything then they have opened it.

Remember that if the word new is still there after a few days, you may well have ended up in their non-matched bin.

Can you tell me where to find:

- a turkish/swedish/dominant escort? - check my ad listings, or some of the links to other escort boards. I do not have time to browse the internet very often, when I do, I am not looking for escorts.

- a discreet hotel in Madrid/London/Paris where I can take my girlfriend? - use a search engine and look for hotels+cityname.

My wife/husband is not keen on the idea of swinging, how can I persuade her/him?

You cannot without risking your marriage, talk about it, but don't push it. If it is not something you both want to do, don't do it - it will end in tears.

What is acceptable content?

It is easier to say what is not acceptable: this is my list, not a legal requirement

  • No Children to be involved (a person under the legal age of consent) in any sex act or picture. (If I think a person looks under age I will ask for picture id (a passport) as proof of age/identity)
  • No animals to be involved.
  • No violence - beyond mild bondage/spanking.
  • No pix of scatt.
  • No mention of Rape or sex under duress
  • No pictures of girls on a single males profile.
  • Genital shots (cocks and pussies) must be accompanied by a face picture or a full length body shot (knees to shoulder minimum)

I will always reserve the right to pull any ad that I do not think fits in with the tone of the site.

What do I do at a swinging party?

Have a look at the information on the "Etiquette" page listed on menu above.

Why don't you have a chat room?

I have now got an excellent chat room, and a video chat room integrated in the ads system.

can I buy you a beer?

Yes please - mine's a pint of Stella in the UK, or a large Mahou in Spain ;)).

 


Thanks to a young lady called Shawn in America for creating this page, and preparing most of the content for me.

And thanks to Hils in France for her grammar corrections.